Post Date December, 02 2023
Girls in passionate love often have a hard time understanding the psychology of their boyfriends, fearing that 'one mistake will turn into eternal hatred'. Here, psychologists teach you a few ways to fathom your boyfriend's psychology. If your boyfriend has any of the following courtship psychology, then your love may be hiding some hidden danger.
Absolute self psychology
This type of man regards whether their partner is beneficial to their future as the only unbreakable condition when choosing a partner. He requires his girlfriend to constantly leverage her strengths and bring him some benefits. Once his girlfriend's performance cannot meet his requirements, he will become furious and even feel that she has betrayed him.
Logical error association
This type of man is usually associated and suspicious. Generally speaking, he values love highly, but his understanding is very narrow and he is also very sensitive to the actions of his lover. Once his girlfriend does something that he cannot understand or is unhappy with, he will brainstorm and mechanically find evidence of disagreement with her.
Non emotional transfer into psychology
This type of man has no sympathy for his girlfriend and cannot empathize with her in any way. Especially when his girlfriend is in a difficult situation and needs him to immerse himself in emotions, he often ignores or withdraws. This kind of man can only share joy with his girlfriend and cannot share adversity.
Contrastive psychology of errors
This type of man often compares his own or others' strengths with his girlfriend's weaknesses. In the early stages of dating his girlfriend, he will quickly discover their strengths, and the relationship between him and her will also skyrocket. But as long as he becomes accustomed to these advantages, his attitude towards his girlfriend will become extremely indifferent. And this kind of indifference often makes her girlfriend puzzled, and even becomes a temptation that makes her fall deeper and deeper.
Adapt to excitement
This type of man is generally very fashionable and sensitive, but lacks autonomy and confidence. They like trendy women and pay more attention to their girlfriend's appearance such as clothing and hairstyle, and are also very willing to invest in this area for her. However, once his girlfriend cannot adapt to his aesthetic requirements, he complains incessantly.
In short, when you discover that your boyfriend has any of the aforementioned psychological states in the process of interacting with you, don't take it lightly, but you don't have to break off with him as soon as you notice it. Because strictly speaking, any male will have the above mentality to some extent.
If you do love him, it's best to openly discuss your concerns with him and make him realize the danger of this psychological hazard. If you are new friends and your relationship with each other is not yet deep, you can also talk to them.
Of course, if you don't think it's necessary, you can also sever ties with him and no longer have any dealings with him. But no matter which approach you take, you must think carefully and not act hastily to avoid causing lifelong pain to yourself.
