Post Date December, 03 2023
Gender Marriage: Women like money, so finding a husband is just changing money?
In fact, it's not that all men should become wealthy, but rather that men should face life bravely, be brave, strong, reliable, loyal, outgoing, sunny, and tender, and become the confidence and pillar of themselves and the women they love! Unfortunately, these qualities are increasingly difficult to find in Chinese men!
More than once, I was asked by my foreign friend, "Why do Chinese men like to grab seats on the bus?" One time, a client from a small country in Central Asia frankly asked me, "Men here seem to like to grab seats on the subway and sit there picking their noses!"! Seeing those standing women and children, I was completely ashamed! So criticized and sarcastic by a person from a backward country in Central Asia!
I also see that many married men treat their wives not with respect or love, but with impatience, verbal abuse, injury, and shock! I have to admit that many women are married. Indeed, as Jia Baoyu said, from pearls to fish eyes, but when men complain, should they also ask themselves: Who stole a woman's youth, loveliness, tenderness, and sweetness? And turned them into fish eyes?
Yi Shu once said: "Professional women and housewives are the two most disgusting occupations in the world.". But more than 90% of women in China have to take on dual jobs, earn money to subsidize their families, take care of household chores after work, and take time to have children. Even so, it is still possible to be rejected by your husband as being not gentle, considerate, or nagging. Many women who live with their parents-in-law may even experience the full flavor of human life!
Which girl is not loved by her parents like a treasure at home? However, only the luckiest women can remain innocent and pure in marriage. Isn't it true that good women are the school of men, and likewise, good men are also the school of women! Unfortunately, there are too few men in China who can qualify for school! When faced with the heavy pressure of life, what they give their loved ones is not confidence or support, but boredom.
A German engineer I know always comes to China several times a year due to his work relationship. Sometimes he chats and talks about how good his wife is and how happy it is to meet her. Last summer, he took his wife to travel to China while working. During the three or four days, another company in Beijing invited his wife to play (he wants to work in Shanghai and cannot leave!). He took his wife to the carriage and kissed and kissed before leaving, "I love you," he said countless times before. In fact, his wife is in her 50s and looks like she is in her 60s. He looks much younger than her and has a refined and handsome temperament. However, he is very considerate to his wife, takes her everywhere, and specially takes a month off to accompany her to Tibet. ".
Some people may say that this is just surface work, but how many men in China can do such a face saving project? I have seen many foreigners treat women politely and take care of them everywhere, from opening the door, pulling chairs, carrying luggage, to arranging their itinerary, all taking into account women's needs, and I particularly like to praise women! But Chinese men are generally more self reliant.
My friend encountered a situation where she and a male friend and a female friend took a taxi together. The man sat in the front driver's seat and the two women sat behind. The total fare was 17 yuan. The man paid for the taxi and after getting off, the man said, "17 quick, 3 people, 6 yuan per person."
To sum up, there is no reason why women do not like successful men, because success not only means money, but also represents an attitude, taste, demeanor, temperament, and cultivation. The assertion that a woman marries a wealthy person for money and a poor person for love is too untenable! Especially today it seems unworthy of its name! "The young lady of a wealthy family cannot marry a poor boy," said Fitzgerald! And I think: "A woman who has a chance is going to marry a wealthy person, which is not a sin"! However, if you associate with successful men, the situation may be different. I have summarized the following benefits of associating with successful men:
Successful men generally have a good career and a wealthy economy, and will not experience a situation similar to the above 17/3=6 speed situation.
Most successful men are knowledgeable and knowledgeable, and they do not use boring words. They use their poor tongues as humor, and use their acerbity as sharp words.
Successful men generally pay attention to grooming their appearance, and will not experience unpleasant situations such as strong body odor, greasy hair, western pants with sneakers, and pants that are 3-50mm short.
Successful men (if not busy thief S) are expected to receive romantic gifts such as flowers, candy, plush toys, MP3 players, etc. from them, which can add spice to life.
5. You can receive a beautiful proposal ring.
6. You don't have to rush around to raise a down payment for your house, nor do you have to struggle with monthly mortgage payments.
7. Don't argue over a few cents on the vegetable market and be scolded as a rough woman.
Children are expected to receive excellent genes and better educational conditions.
