Although men tend to be indifferent to everything most of the time, it's actually an illusion. At least, you must not touch the following five places, as touching a man makes you "soft".
1、 Praising another man in front of him
Just as women do not want men to praise another woman in front of them, men also mind women praising another man in front of them, even if the man is a woman's family member or a man's friend.
Think about it, most men love face, especially in front of their beloved women, hoping to be recognized by the other person. When you praise another man in front of him, you are just telling him that there is another man who is better than him. If this man is still recognized by him, which man can tolerate it?
2、 Exposed by others
It is also a matter of face, but it also involves the issue of being a person. Imagine if a woman was exposed that you had a double eyelid surgery on a certain day, time, or place, I think the feeling at that time would also be very unpleasant? The so-called 'hitting people without hitting their faces',' cursing without exposing their shortcomings', and 'exposing their shortcomings' are originally considered petty behavior. Even the closest lover should not easily step into this forbidden zone.
Difficulty and confusion are always the highest realm in life. A straightforward person is always easy to offend others. A man's failure is like a scar, just leave it to the man to slowly lick it. What a woman should do is learn to make her memory worse.
3、 Sexual performance
Every man hopes to be able to maintain his strength and ease his movements, but there are always times when his strength is not up to his expectations, and the attitude of women when facing men who are not up to their expectations can greatly affect their future performance. What's particularly bad is that some women still like to promote the personal addiction between husband and wife. It should be noted that men's inability is not entirely a physiological issue, but rather a psychological one. Women's ridicule is the reason for men's "psychological inability".
For example, there is a colleague whose husband doesn't come home for three days or two, and everyone knows what's going on. And because she had been married for many years and had not had children, she was afraid of being laughed at, so she spread the word that her husband couldn't do it in bed. I think for a man, not being able to do it in bed may be much more serious than not having money. So the man openly led a young and beautiful woman into a couple and used his actions to tell everyone that he was not "not able" anymore, but that he had no "sexual interest" in his wife.
As for whether it's a pretense or not, we don't know. I just know that whether it's okay or not, women shouldn't take it out and talk about it everywhere.
4、 Being ridiculed for being timid and cowardly
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that heroes save beauty, but men all like beauty, so in the eyes of men, they all hope to be a hero admired by beauty.
Unfortunately, we are a civilized society, so there are not many beauties who need men to use their powerful figures as flower protectors. But this does not mean that men will give up their heroic dreams. For men, mocking them for being timid is nothing more than implying that they are not manly enough, which can be an insult to them.
5、 Being criticized for their appearance
I always thought that only women would care about their appearance, but in fact, men also care. Recently, a friend has had a girlfriend and has been feeling that their standard figure is not strong enough to give her enough security.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)