Post Date December, 03 2023
Not long ago, the alcoholic husband had to stay in the hospital due to excessive drinking, and my mother-in-law was not around. I had to be busy with my children and work, so I was somewhat indifferent to him. Although he had some small complaints, he also knew about my family's situation, so he did not blame me.
On the fifth day of hospitalization, he began to be unwilling to let me go to the hospital to see him. I thought he was worried about me being too tired and unwilling to let me travel back and forth. To be honest, I was still a little happy at the time, thinking that my husband knew how to love me, but the result was not that. It was that he had an attentive little nurse beside him.
The night before yesterday, I came home from work to cook for my child, and after tutoring them with homework and getting them to sleep, I was really bored. So I decided to go to the hospital and have a conversation with my husband. However, when I pushed open my husband's door, he was kissing the little nurse passionately and his hands were rubbing against her body, but I didn't even notice my arrival. I couldn't stand it anymore and coughed twice. The little nurse quickly left. Given that my husband is a patient, I don't want to get angry with him, but how can I let go of this hospitalization environment? So I decided to transfer my husband overnight, but he persisted and said he wouldn't be involved with the little nurse again. However, how could I trust him? In just a few days, I had sex with the little nurse. If one day I got into bed, I wouldn't be angry to death. So, with my insistence, I struggled until one or two that night and still processed the transfer procedures.
I cursed my husband for smelling shameless while I couldn't work with peace of mind, so I took a leave of absence to watch over him in the hospital.
My husband has been married for so many years and has been very kind to me. His mouth is also very sweet, and my family treats him well. Before that, he often flirted with many people around him. I think this is a joke between adults, but I didn't expect him to come true this time.
Reply:
Many married women may not be aware of the fact that men compete for favor with their children, especially when they are vulnerable. They always hope that their wives can give them more care. However, during their hospitalization, you only consider the feelings of the children, but ignore the feelings of an adult boy, which makes him sad.
When a person is most vulnerable physically or emotionally, they will seek new support points. You also mentioned that your husband has a sweet mouth, and it seems that his face is also good. Therefore, a few words make a unmarried little nurse unable to stop. Therefore, they will take more care of your husband during work breaks, which can lead to ambiguity.
It doesn't take much time for people to like each other, maybe in a few minutes, maybe in a few hours, it can be seen that the little nurse really likes your husband, and your husband is just a momentary emptiness.
Nowadays, when your husband is transferred to another hospital, the little nurse will definitely not stop there. Therefore, in recent days, you need to be cautious about your husband's mobile phone movements and nip this dangerous game in the bud in a timely manner. If not prevented in time, it will be an extramarital affair that adds obstacles to the marriage. Although there will be no results, the process will make you suffer in every way.
While taking care of your husband, do not proactively mention this matter to avoid evoking various memories. Just keep an eye on his phone, and if necessary, confiscate his phone first. Once you receive an ambiguous text message, you can use your husband's tone to coldly reply to him.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
