Post Date December, 03 2023
The reason for breaking up after breaking up is actually to better save the other party. Because there is an effective principle of disconnection after breaking up. If you can understand these principles and apply them flexibly, you can play a major role in your relationship. What are the effective principles of disconnection after breaking up?
First: manufacturing unavailability
Since it is time to break up, the party who does not want to break up will pester the other party according to the convention. As long as there is time, they want to call and send messages to the other party. If you keep pestering each other like this, the other party will feel that you are loyal to yourself and you love him. Therefore, the other party will not pay attention to your good. In this case, you may as well give the other party a definite word and tell him that since your relationship is not possible to be recovered, you are not willing to play a solo role. This is the last time you contact each other. Goodbye. I hope to cherish each other in the future. Generally, when you send such a message, the other party will always feel that you are making a final farewell. Then I will reply to your message. From the other party's reply, you can also feel whether the other party still cares about you. Sometimes people are very cheap. The more you hope, the less you get. Sometimes the things you give up will come automatically.
Second: image development
As the saying goes, after three days of separation, we should be more impressed. If you don't know how to change yourself, don't blame others for changing. You don't know. Therefore, you need to be new and make the other party feel new, so that you can maintain a good impression on you. Only in this way can the other party cherish you and value you. It's not easy to like a person in this life. Since you like him, try to transform yourself. When you know how to constantly update yourself, no matter how you dress or talk, when you show your elegance, I believe you will be able to regain the attention of the other party again.
Third: the balance between the concentration of favoritism and the concentration of conflict
Why should we use disconnection to save love? When you are in love, you like each other, and the relationship between you will become deeper and deeper through the accumulation of time. You have nothing to talk about. In this process, you have good memories, but also accumulated deep feelings, and the concentration of good feelings is rising. But when you don't love, the conflict between you will intensify. When you break up, you may think of each other's bad at first. You can't stand each other's shortcomings, so you start to disconnect after breaking up. After the disconnection, the contradiction with the other party gradually faded away, and I can't even remember why I quarreled with the other party at that time. But after a long time, they will start to recall the good of each other. Think of what the other party said when they were with you and the way they walked. So, when the concentration of your good feelings and conflict is balanced, the other party will suddenly find that you are better.
In this life, it is very difficult to make the other party feel bored. Because you should constantly observe others to be yourself. Therefore, the most important thing in this life is often to understand that some losses are only temporary. If you do it properly, the lost will come back sooner or later, but you must spend some time and thought.
