Post Date December, 03 2023
Yating, with a cheerful personality, is always unable to hide her words in her heart. Whenever she encounters anything, she will take it home and tell her husband. If you have happy things, you can share them with your husband; There are also things that are not going well, and I hope to get help and guidance from my husband. This was originally a manifestation of mutual support and trust between husband and wife, but something happened later that completely broke her husband's heart.
Yating's mother-in-law is a frugal person who always likes to accumulate all the beverage bottles she has drunk at home and sell them to a recycling station. Sometimes, she also picks up some empty bottles from outside, making the balcony messy. Yating has expressed her dissatisfaction to her mother-in-law, but she still enjoys it.
Yating had to vent her dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law on her husband, who grew up in a single parent family and was very considerate of her mother's frugality. She grew up relying on her mother's little pulling. The husband told Yating that he could listen to her in everything, but this time he must tolerate his mother. Yating couldn't be forgiven. After talking to her husband for a few words, she began to blame her and turned over all the old accounts before her marriage. She also stated that the house she lives in was bought by her parents, and she can always have her husband and mother-in-law move away. The husband was speechless after hearing Yating's accusation. Three days later, her mother-in-law moved out of the house.
Between husband and wife, there is nothing wrong with speaking freely, and there is nothing to stop them from causing major disasters
Reasonably, couples should have no scruples when talking to each other, and should speak freely. "Because since we truly love each other, we should trust each other, be honest with each other about our thoughts, and say what we have to say painfully.". However, if there are really no scruples between couples and they can say whatever they want, it is absolutely not acceptable. This is because casually speaking unfounded words to each other, or unstoppably speaking unreasonable words, can cast a shadow over the couple's emotions.
How to control the propriety of couples' conversation
First of all, you can't talk about something over and over again. As the saying goes, "Speaking words three times is like straw", which means that repetition is of no value. Repeated nagging not only makes the other person feel boring, but also destroys their living environment and psychological peace.
Secondly, don't talk too much to stimulate the other party, even if the other party has a fault, don't get caught up in the unreasonable entanglement. The biggest taboo in conversation is to touch each other's pain points, because everyone has their own weaknesses and dignity. Love can last only if we understand and respect each other. Yating in the case committed this taboo.
Finally, don't say unfounded things. Some people become jealous when they see their loved ones with other members of the opposite sex, and without even clearing up the situation, they casually label each other as "unfaithful.". These unfounded words can make the other party feel wronged and atmosphere, deepening mutual misunderstanding.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
