Male and female marriage psychology experts have summarized three things in marriage: once a man achieves it, it will make a woman deeply infatuated with you:
1. Good memory, remember all the details of a woman
Women usually pay more attention to the trivial things in life, and their world is almost always composed of numerous trivial things. And men don't really care about these things. Taking clothing as an example, women are clear about how many colors and styles of clothing they have, while men cannot even determine how many pairs of underwear they have.
If a woman inadvertently reveals her hobbies, scheduled tasks, past experiences, etc., and is secretly recorded by a man and mentioned at the appropriate time, the woman often feels greatly moved. Because they believe that it is impossible for men to remember these trivial things, they interpret men's actions as self righteous attention to themselves. He forgot other things, only remembered my things, "and even secretly chuckled," How much he cares about me! This kind of emotion can easily transform into strong trust and attachment to men.
2. Commitment, courage to take responsibility
The ideal man for women should first and foremost be a person who is willing to take responsibility. This includes a commitment to love, a commitment to family, and a commitment to the future. Almost all women's concerns are things that men need to give commitment to.
Because in the eyes of women, commitment symbolizes the degree to which men value them. Women may never fantasize about gender equality, but they never give up on striving for their important position in men's lives. The commitment a man gives them is equivalent to recognizing the position they need. Commitment also represents the formation of a contractual relationship that women hope for. Whether it's marriage or cohabitation, women's idealization makes them believe in promises far more than in the law. The commitment also emphasizes the protection that men can provide to women. Women are easily frightened animals, and the love they seek throughout their lives is to some extent just a haven and a safe island to rely on.
3. A decisive and indecisive decision
Women's indecisiveness is a headache that men often learn from. When shopping with women, they will constantly pick and choose for a tablecloth, and when they finally decide to buy it, they will regret it as soon as they walk out the door. And they also have a lot of concerns in their emotional interactions. It is a luxury for men to hope for a positive answer from them. This situation actually shows a psychological fear among women, which is the fear that women must take responsibility for their actions. They are afraid of making wrong decisions and are afraid that they will not be able to bear the responsibilities arising from them.
So, when men need to express their wishes, they should be decisive. For example, when looking for a woman to travel, instead of asking her, "How about going on a trip together next time?" It's better to tell her in a decisive tone, "Let's go on a trip together next time!" This way, the likelihood of the woman agreeing to the next appointment will be much higher. Such a decisive decision may seem rough on the surface, but in fact, it not only reflects the man's straightforward nature in doing things, but also helps women solve those unresolved problems.