Demonization of the opposite sex: Overcontainment of early love is easy to lead to homosexuality

On the 20th of this month, the United States Congress decided to "abolish the ban on homosexual soldiers not to disclose their sexual orientation". This shows that the society's recognition of homosexuality has taken another step forward.

Homosexuality is not a disease, not a sin, but a natural phenomenon. It is a special gene generated by human evolution, which leads to the sexual orientation of same-sex attraction in some people.

However, the homosexual behavior of immature adolescents is mostly caused by environmental factors or their own sexual and psychological development, and should be corrected as soon as possible. Prevention should begin in childhood.

Interview expert: Zhang Chun, director of Nanjing Psychological Crisis Intervention Center

1. The hot love between two men

The term "homosexuality", created by French doctor Benkert in 1869, refers to "basic or absolute attraction to members of one's own sex".

Homosexual attraction, like heterosexual attraction, will also burst into beautiful love.

The love between Zhang Guorong and Tang Hede is romantic and lasting. Tang Tang took good care of Zhang Guorong's daily life and helped Zhang Guorong deal with his wealth with his experience in banking. When Zhang Guorong sang "I Honestly Love You" on the stage, he always looked at Tang Tang under the stage affectionately, and was thought to be dedicated to Tang Tang; Zhang Guorong also expressed his heart to the fans through "The Moon Represents My Heart": "Mr. Tang is the dearest person in my life besides my mother!"

When Zhang Guorong became a popular singer, people believed that in addition to his efforts, perfection in love was the starting point and harbor of his growth.

The story of Emperor Chen Wendi and Han Zigao in the Southern Dynasty is equally moving. Han Zigao was beautiful and beautiful. After meeting Chen Qian (Emperor Chen Wendi), who was not yet in power, he devoted all his heart to this equally handsome couple. They ate and slept together and fought side by side. After the Liang Dynasty was destroyed, Chen Qian claimed the title of emperor and wanted to make Han Zigao a male queen.

Wei Linggong and Mizimian "eat peaches and are sweet, and can't be exhausted; Emperor Ai of the Han Dynasty and Dong Xian "the emperor did not want to move the virtuous, but broke his sleeves and rose". The love of "Fentao" and "Broken Sleeve" are both sincere!

Many famous foreign works are out of homosexuality. For example, Shakespeare's famous sonnet collection is dedicated to a handsome young man. Shakespeare's poems are full of deep admiration. This beautiful man is the third Earl of Southampton, Shakespeare's friend in the scandal; Tchaikovsky fell in love with a young man. Inspired by love, he wrote the famous Swan Lake.

2. Most people are bisexual

Case: The protagonists in the film Brokeback Mountain, which describes homosexuality, later married and had children.

Case: Wilde, the author of "Happy Prince", got married and had children at the age of 30 to get rid of his "homosexuality".

This shows that homosexuals and bisexuals are different. They are not different from homosexuals in terms of physical structure. Men or men, women or women, the only difference is "sexual orientation".

There are three types of sexual orientation:

Absolute heterosexuality: only interested in the opposite sex, most people belong to this.

Absolute homosexuality: only interested in the same sex, never interested in the opposite sex.

Different degrees of bisexuality: feelings, love and sexual attraction for both the same sex and the opposite sex.

The vast majority of people who are considered homosexual are bisexual, and the "absolute homosexuality" is less than 0.5%.

In an interview with Time magazine, Zhang Guorong said: "Strictly speaking, I am bisexual. I also like women. I had several girlfriends when I was young.".

The story of Caesar and Cleopatra is well known. He is also a bisexual. He was handsome when he was young and had aristocratic blood, but he became the male favorite of King Nicolas des. He was called "the queen's rival" and "the king's bedman".

How many homosexuals/bisexuals are there in the crowd? Many professional scholars have confirmed that in different historical, social and cultural backgrounds, the proportion is relatively constant, about 2% - 5%. Homosexuality accounts for about 5% of men and 3% of women.

The Nantah Youth Daily reported that the number of homosexuals in the two campuses of Nantah is estimated to exceed 400. There are more gay boys than girls. It is consistent with the number of social groups.