After the beginning of love, young boys and girls will inevitably have feelings of affection, admiration and worship for the opposite sex. Some people even have emotional attachment to the opposite sex, which is usually unknown to the other party, so we call it "single love". It is different from lovelorn love. Although it has the goal of falling in love, both parties have never had the fusion and exchange of feelings. It is just wishful thinking and bitter lovesickness. Strictly speaking, it can't be called love, but an illusion of love.
There are many types of single love: shy type. This type of person silently and intensely loves a person of the opposite sex, but because of shyness or timidity, he dare not reveal his true feelings to the other person, so he falls into endless self-distress. The stubborn type. The expression of love to a loved one was rejected, but the passionate love did not diminish. Fantasy. The person you love is far away from the sky, floating in the clouds, remote and unreachable, either a star or a hero. Knowing that there is no hope of even approaching the other side, they cannot extinguish their feelings and miss each other day and night.
The psychological state of single lovers is different. Shy single lovers often think highly of their loved ones and belittle themselves. They put the ideal halo on each other's head and were blinded by the halo created by their hearts. They felt more and more unattainable and humble. They are afraid of being rejected, or ridiculed, or even lost the hope of love after revealing their feelings, so they prefer to bury the burning love in the bottom of their hearts. No matter the shy, stubborn or fantasy type of single lovers, their common characteristics are sincere, strong and lingering feelings, lingering and continuous, even if their enthusiasm can not get the slightest return, they still do not change their original intention. Another psychological characteristic of them is that they are unwilling or dare not face up to reality. It is clear that there is no possibility of falling in love at all, or the falling flowers are intentional and merciless, but they still hold hope and refuse to stop.