Sexual Health
Can't girls have sex before the age of 20? How old is it for girls to have sex and be healthier
It is a normal psychological reaction for young men and women who have just started their relationship to enjoy contact and interaction with the opposite sex. As the song sings: "You have never seen me, I have never seen you, young friends are happier together than anything..." This is because young men and women have a good impression of the opposite sex. This kind of favoritism is caused by physiological and psychological factors, mainly manifested as:
One is the drive of natural instincts: as men and women enter puberty, the development of the hypothalamus, pituitary, and reproductive organs gradually matures, and the levels of androgens produced by the male testes and estrogen produced by the female ovaries increase. The changes in hormone levels trigger a series of growth and development characteristics during adolescence, which are medically referred to as secondary sexual characteristics and generate sexual drive. This driving force, like positive and negative charges, plays a role in attracting the opposite sex, and young men and women develop a favorable impression of the opposite sex. This is a sign of increasingly mature sexual physiology and a normal physiological response.
The second is the infiltration and induction of social information: a person is constantly influenced by sexual culture from a young age to the majority. In real life, there are emotional interactions between the opposite sex, such as love, marriage, and childbirth among young men and women from family, friends, and neighbors; Especially in movies, TV shows, dramas, newspapers, and magazines, the descriptions of love are vivid, realistic, sincere, and touching, often reflecting on the eyes and minds of young people, which is enough to intoxicate young men and women, and occasionally stimulate their vague imitation and awakening of sexual emotions.
The third is the catalysis of external beauty and internal beauty: the opposite sex that teenagers like has a process from universality to specificity. Generally speaking, teenagers like to showcase their appearance, physique, knowledge, talent, and excellent qualities in front of the opposite sex. The aesthetic appreciation of the opposite sex is mainly reflected in two aspects: external beauty and internal beauty. The love of beauty is universal, and it is human nature to love beauty. Some people say that people cannot even control themselves from looking towards the beautiful opposite sex. You can see how charming beauty is. It can also promote teenagers' liking and development towards the opposite sex.
Adolescents' favoritism towards the opposite sex is an external manifestation of their inner emotions and a healthy emotional response that inevitably occurs during the initiation period of youth. This emotional response can enhance friendship and understanding between teenagers.
One is to establish lofty ideals, with learning as the main purpose, cultivate good qualities such as self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement, and self-discipline, treat adolescent sexual psychology and physiological changes with an objective attitude, master scientific knowledge, and not become obsessed with the opposite sex.
The second is to prevent early love. Early love has ambiguity, simplicity, diversity, and instability. Teenagers imitate adults' love, unable to distinguish the difference between friendship and love, and premarital sex, which delays the best opportunity to learn, makes many young girls become mothers of girls. Unmarried pregnancy seriously damages the physical and mental health of teenagers and can also affect their future life paths.
The third is to strengthen physical exercise. Adolescence is a good time to grow one's body, and physical exercise makes a person have a cheerful and positive personality, which helps teenagers release their sexual repression during adolescence and pass it smoothly.
How unmarried girls use contraception
The risk of sexually transmitted diseases is low, and efficient and stable intrauterine devices can be chosen. Clinical practice suggests that using an intrauterine device is safe for unmarried women with stable sexual partners. Due to the high tension and sensitivity of the uterine muscle wall in unmarried women, as well as the tendency for intrauterine devices to shift or fall off, follow-up should be strengthened and regular B-ultrasound examinations should be conducted to reduce failure.
Another suitable choice for this type of woman is the shorter oral contraceptive pill. The third-generation oral contraceptive pill has the advantages of low dosage, high efficiency, fewer side effects, and can be used by newly married or cohabiting women who do not want to have children temporarily.
Women with stable sexual partners and frequent sexual activity - safe period contraception, condoms, and contraceptive films
Compared to daily life patterns, emotional stability, and regular menstrual cycles can choose safe period contraception. During non safe periods, condoms and contraceptive films should be used for contraception.
Women with unstable sexual partners - condoms
From the perspective of sexual safety and health, condoms should be selected for contraception due to the vulnerability to sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS. Condoms are convenient to use, have good effects, have minimal side effects, and are easy to obtain and use (convenient for pharmacies and condom vending machines to retrieve condoms), which have a dual effect on contraception and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases.
After Contraceptive Life - Emergency Contraceptive Pills
Many women's pregnancies are caused by unprotected sexual activity, caused by uncontrollable emotions in a passionate relationship. This kind of 'emotional arrival' will not come 'prepared'. If there is no contraception, emergency contraception should be used immediately. This method is limited to emergency use and is not used as a routine method.
Girl: Don't have sex before the age of 20
Modern medical research has proved that cervical cancer of adolescent girls (women under 20 years old) is closely related to unclean sexual life. It is found that the younger the age of sexual life, the more sexual partners, the more frequent sexual intercourse, and the higher the incidence rate. that is because
① The histiocyte of the girl's cervix are immature, relatively soft, and sensitive to external carcinogens and cancer promoters. If the sexual partner is the carrier of cancer cells, the cancer cells are easy to be planted on the girl's immature cervical tissue during sexual intercourse.
② After sperm enters the vagina, sperm antibodies are produced, which generally disappear after about 4 months. The more sexual partners, the more frequent sexual intercourse, and the production of various antibodies (heterologous proteins) that enter the female body in a short period of time, hindering sperm antibody reactions, and easily developing cervical cancer.
③ In recent years, the incidence of cervical cancer has been related to herpes 2 virus infection, and sexual partners are carriers of the virus, which can lead to cervical cancer.
④ A variety of pathogenic bacteria and viruses (especially human papillomavirus, which causes condyloma acuminatum) in male smegma repeatedly stimulate the lower genital tract and cervical epithelium of young women too early, resulting in chronic cervicitis and eventually cervical cancer.
The data shows that the incidence rate of cervical cancer among women married (having sex) before the age of 20 is 1.58%, and that among women married (having sex) after the age of 21, the incidence rate of cervical cancer has dropped to 0.37%, four times the difference between the two. It was observed more than 140 years ago that the incidence rate of cervical cancer of nuns in monasteries was significantly lower than that of married women. This explains the relationship between cervical cancer and sexual activity from another perspective.
Experts warn that premature sexual activity and excessive sexual partners are the reasons why female cervical cancer patients tend to be younger in recent years. Therefore, in order to prevent sexually transmitted diseases and even cervical cancer caused by sexual promiscuity in a healthy and effective manner, women should not engage in sexual activity too early, let alone have relationships with multiple sexual partners; After marriage, one should also have moderate sexual activity, pay attention to sexual hygiene, and resolutely eliminate all extramarital behavior.