Some people say, "Marriage is the tomb of love." Especially for couples living in first-tier cities, facing the pressure of work and family, it is easy to have conflicts, leading to divorce. What "cancer" are there in couples that affect their feelings?
Bad personality and temper
I have a friend whose husband is from Northeast China and has a very strong personality. She is from Jiangsu and has a very gentle personality. "I've been married for over a year, and I've been arguing almost every day. She told me she didn't know how she got married at that time.". If her cooking is not delicious, her husband will scold him; If she comes home late, her husband will get angry. Marriage life for her is like living in a cold cellar.
Editor's analysis: Everyone is an independent individual, and also has their own personality. Once you enter a marriage, if you don't learn to control your temper, you will easily become angry with the other person, which can easily cause conflict between couples and affect each other's feelings. When you truly lose, you will find that the person around you is so important to you.
Mutual aversion to each other
When Xiaolin and her husband first fell in love, they were like glue. When Xiaolin said anything, their husband was obedient. She thought their marriage would last a lifetime. But I didn't expect that after getting married, her husband would feel like a different person. He would be cold and not hot to her, and sometimes he would speak ill of her, even ignoring her. She was very distressed and resentful of her husband's behavior. I didn't know how marriage came to this stage, nor did I expect her husband to become so indifferent.
Editor's Note: Many married women will say that before and after marriage, men are completely different. This is not without reason. When falling in love, some men always try to get you, even your body, but after getting married, they always feel that you are his person anyway. Therefore, this mentality of a man can easily create a gap between two people. Therefore, if the other person is doing something wrong, never show an expression of disgust. Because sometimes when you face each other naked, your relationship is closer than that of your relatives.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)