Post Date December, 03 2023
"No one is perfect, and the relationship between husband and wife requires a tolerant heart. Only through mutual tolerance, mutual understanding, and mutual accommodation can they get along harmoniously.". If a woman is always complaining, it is easy to trap herself in a state of unhappiness. Therefore, women should learn to become open-minded, so as not to turn themselves into a resentful woman that men are bored with.
1. Excessive pursuit of romance
Romance is a woman's natural instinct, but everything must have a degree. After all, romance cannot be eaten as a meal. There is a gap between marriage and love, and it is easy to say anything when in love. However, once married, they are faced with more trivial matters in life. Romance is not without it, but with a change in nature. The man who once said a dozen words about I love you every day is busy every day, so women begin to complain. In fact, life itself is just fuel, rice, oil, salt, and salt. Romance is just an occasional ornament, which can easily lead to feelings of disappointment for people who live too high a life, Then it's natural to become a resentful woman.
2. A woman like Lin Daiyu
Anyone who has seen Dream of the Red Mansions knows that Lin Daiyu is a woman who is too sentimental and sensitive to allow a man to neglect her or leave her for a while. She does not directly tell you what she wants, but always asks you to guess her thoughts. For example, when she gently frowns, a man should gently ask if she is uncomfortable... This kind of woman always likes to blame herself, I hope men can pay more attention to themselves. If a man appears bored, she will torture him to make you feel bad. When meeting such a woman, men will not only be tired, but also tired.
3. Carry a vinegar jar with you
Being jealous is not the exclusive right of women, and men are also jealous. However, vinegar is not eaten indiscriminately. Proper jealousy indicates that you care about men. Excessive jealousy is a psychological problem. In love, people are selfish and hope that the other person will remain loyal to them, but some women like to eat vinegar indiscriminately. If their men and female colleagues say a few more words, it's no good, even if they don't pay public food for a few days, they will suspect that there are other women outside them. Such a woman lives in suspicion every day. In fact, trust between husband and wife is indispensable, and no one wants to feel controlled by others, Excessive entanglement is actually a double-edged sword.
4. Lack of confidence in oneself
The beauty of a woman requires self-confidence in addition to her good appearance and figure. Confident women are always the most beautiful. Because confident women have a better mindset, they tend to think in an optimistic direction. Therefore, women who often complain must not be confident enough, always suspecting that life has treated them badly, and men who suspect themselves have changed their minds. Although women are naturally more sensitive and suspicious, excessive paranoia is a manifestation of self-confidence. If they do not believe in themselves, So how do others trust you?
5. Overcritical of him
If you think about it, there can't be a perfect person in this world, and everyone has shortcomings, let alone men and women themselves are somewhat different. They are not as meticulous as women, nor are they as good at housework as women. Although two people are married, they still have independent thinking space. If someone keeps whispering in their ear that you didn't wash your feet yesterday and didn't come home on time today, you should remember to pay the electricity bill tomorrow, "It can even interfere with men's freedom to make friends. Such criticism is believed that every man will be bored, and he will also live a very guilty life. If a man fails to meet the standards, he will become an overly nagging and resentful woman.".
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
