Two thousand and four hundred years ago, Socrates once said to Theodore, a prostitute, "When God gives you a body, if you can make the other person wait for it, your evaluation will be high
When the stomach is very bloated, no matter how delicious the food is, it will still be tasteless to eat. However, when you are hungry first and you can eat the waiting food, no matter what it is, it will feel extremely delicious.
It's not bad to make the other party wait anxiously and they will like you more.
A series of studies have been conducted in the United States to investigate this subtle psychology. The computer screens out the phone numbers of the young ladies who are supposed to be dating partners, and tells some male students this phone number. Then, the male students are asked to make a phone call to meet these girls.
At this point, the girls have two reactions. The first is to readily agree to the other party's invitation, and the second is to hesitate for a long time due to reasons such as "I've been busy lately, maybe I don't have time!" before slowly agreeing.
In fact, after a date, when visiting these male students, they often say, "It's useless to just use tactics that make the other person anxious." So, what kind of tactics should be used to be effective?
According to later research, when invited, the answer is often quite effective: "I don't usually agree to people like this, but it's because you're the one who's happy to have such an opportunity.
Women who answer in this way tend to give men a favorable impression of being "kind, gentle, and easy to get along with", receiving overwhelming reviews.
Women who do not appreciate invitations are prone to giving the impression of being unfriendly, cold, and ruthless, while those who readily agree are not very popular.
Female readers, applying the results of this study, don't get caught up in male aggression too quickly. The best way to deal with it is with an attitude of 'usually not willing to agree, only you are special.'. In this way, your friendship between the two of you will go even further.