Women always portray their ideal type of man in their hearts. In fact, men like to portray their ideal lover in their hearts. The following five are the things men most want to meet in their lives.
1、 An unattainable dream lover
Such a person may be a star, or a beautiful woman who looks like a star. Anything that touches her will only make men timid, but in their hearts, they are truly worshipped. This kind of lover is only suitable for appreciating in the heart and not daring to get it. It is possible to dream about her but dare not even make a phone call in life.
Suggestion: Such women should not be too close. The less they know about her, the better. The more they know, the easier it is to become "friends", and they can only be friends. Just imagine in your heart that a "Platonic" style romantic relationship can appear even more beautiful under the beautiful lighting, which is the legendary "better to steal than to steal".
2、 Worshiping one's lover
Men must not lack a sense of achievement, constantly looking up at others' sniffles will be the biggest pain for men. Men hope to have such a woman, not because of their appearance, money, career glory, or their eloquence, but because they are willing and determined to follow them. In "The Legend of Dragon Slaying", Mr. Jin Yong designed two people, one is Spider and the other is Xiaozhao. Xiaozhao spared no effort to wash Zhang Wuji's feet, laying a practical foundation for the foot washing city that is now everywhere. She does not seek the best, not the highest, but only to wash the feet of her beloved and serve him for a lifetime.
Suggestion: She will not demand or interfere with you. It can be said that she has no complaints or regrets, but she must respect the other party's efforts. Even if you do not deeply love her, her departure will still make you feel disappointed.
3、 A lover who brings endless satisfaction and fun in terms of sex
Such women may not be very beautiful, but they have a variety of styles, a sexy and easily satisfied figure, making men feel like they are the most masculine. In fact, it is difficult for a man to find a lover for sex. She needs to be charming and experienced, but she cannot give people the feeling of being raped by a woman.
I can't hum and haha after working hard for a long time without climax, nor can I be satisfied in a few minutes and then clip my legs and say, 'I've had enough. Let's take a break.'. Men really hope to have someone who is perfect in terms of sex. Pan Jinlian's encounter with Ximen Qing can be said to be a model among them.
Suggestion: Such people can be encountered and sought after, but they are not traceable. The key is to act according to one's abilities, communicate and investigate more. The most important thing is that the heart has feelings, and the body has feelings.
4、 A lover who can help you financially in your career
A prince in need often needs the help of a noble person, while those who lack talent need career support. Even successful men still aspire to develop in more fields and obtain more economic benefits. In fact, this is not a transaction, but a mutual need and reasonable utilization. In fact, what men need in such women is a kind of maternal care, and children who have not been weaned do need to take another step with the help of adults.
Suggestion: It is absolutely not allowed to use this woman's money to pursue another woman. This is something that women cannot tolerate, and it is also the most basic morality. People can be foolish for love, but they won't be "foolish and naive" for a lifetime. Once you reveal that all you love is her money, you also lose her; Men can accept women's assistance, but they must use it with dignity.
5、 Lovers who can enhance and satisfy their 'sexual confidence'
When a man reaches a certain age, he has gained both money and status. His wife and long-time lover are also experiencing aesthetic fatigue, and most importantly, he has lost confidence in sex. They are very conflicted in their hearts, and on the one hand, they dislike little girls who would rather exchange their bodies for money and status, get something for nothing, and play with old men as champions; On the one hand, they also crave comfort from young women's bodies. The simpler their sexual history, the more popular it becomes. They don't have to worry about whether the other person is satisfied, but rather can have more pleasure and sense of achievement in being "honest but old yet able to eat".
Suggestion: Don't let the wife who controls the economic lifeline get caught, and don't let her mistress get pregnant, otherwise all high-rise buildings will collapse overnight.